Friday, January 18, 2008

The Music of Our Lives

I love when I hear a certain song and it brings back a rush of memories. I can close my eyes and it feels like I'm back in that certain time period. Like when Janessa and I were listening to that Deana Carter song during Thanksgiving, I could just imagine us sitting in the bedroom that we shared in the basement. Lounging on our sweet water bed with the pink floral comforter, admiring the flourescent flowers I painted on the wall (I can't believe mom and dad let me do that!), which perfectly complimented the teal green carpet. It's amazing how a single song can trigger so many emotions, visual images, feelings, memories and even scents. Here are a few songs that will always have a special place in my heart:

Two Princes by the Spin Doctors
Two words: Georgia summer. We had just moved to Georgia from Utah and I remember spending hours sitting on the counter in the kitchen with Janessa, listening to this song over and over and over. Don't ask me why we chose that location, but many memories were made while lounging on that cream laminate counter top.

Walk on the Ocean by Toad the Wet Sprocket
My mom decided to try homeschooling us (it lasted a year) and so we took a family trip to Pensacola, Florida to buy the books. This was the first time that I had been to a real beach. I remember hearing this song on that trip and I can still visualize that beautiful ocean whenever I hear this song. (I dont know which is sweeter, our ghetto "surround sound" that we hooked up in the van or Janessa's red diamond sunglasses :)


It's the End of the World As We Know It by R.E.M.
One time at a church dance these boys could sing every word to this song and I thought that it was so cool (I mean, who wouldn't?). So I recorded this song off the radio and then (I'm emberassed to admit this) I would listen to a phrase, pause it, then write down the words. And repeated this throughout the whole song until I had every word written down. Then I practiced and practiced until I had the whole thing memorized. That is so pathetic, but to this day I can still sing every word of that song. (hmm, I've got some nicely toned arms in this picture, what happened??)

New Testament Soundtrack
Growing up, Janessa was always the good one and I was always a little on the rebellious side. I remember that we would get in so many fights because she would only let me listen to this music (or any other church songs) while driving to seminary so that we could get in a spiritual mood (it's a great idea now, but come on I was a teenager, give me a break :). I would get so mad. I still remember when she told on me for listening to 99X on the way to seminary. Despite my innappropriate music listening habits, I still graduated seminary and this picture is of my amazing teacher. Every day she would bring in hot chocolate and was just the sweetest lady. She passed away from cancer several years ago, but she'll always have a special place in my heart.


I Can't Stop this Feeling... (or the Hukachaka song)
I'm not sure what the real name of this song is, or who sings it, but I can still remember every word and almost every move in the dance that we made up for it. At EFY they have a talent show and Wesley, Nicole, Janessa and I (with Rachel as our "manager") all went to the thrift store and came up with these hideous disco outfits, put on some pretty scary make-up and did the sweetest dance ever at the talent show. I remember spending hours in Nicole's bedroom perfecting every move to the dance. It was such a hit (in our minds) that we volunteered to perform it at the ward talent show. This time Nicole sported this bright orange corduroy dress. It was hot.


What a Good Boy by B.N.L.
Nicole. She learned how to play this on her guitar and I thought that she was so cool. I remember camping out in somebody's backyard and she was playing this inside the tent (it was the same night Wes got her convertible, remember?) She sang and played it so good and I remember thinking that she could get any guy she wanted. I still think you're cool, Nicole and I always think of you when I hear this song!
The Wedding Singer Soundtrack
I went with some friends to see this movie right before my nose surgery and loved it so much that they got me the CD as a get well present. Now whenever I hear these songs I so fondly remember laying in my bed (the same pink floral, sweet water bed) in so much pain and strung out on meds, just listening to this CD.
Jock Jams CD
So my sister and I had the pimpest ride in high school. It was a Ford Granada. The name says it all. I don't even know how to explain the beauty of this car. It was a 1970's beige nightmare. The heater was broke so we had piles and piles of blankets inside and I would always hide under the blankets when we would pull into the parking lot at school and my sister would get so mad. The radio was also broken. Every station was so staticky, but we discovered a cool trick that if you tune into a certain station and honk the horn, then the horn would come out of the speakers. Since the radio didn't work, we got this little portable radio that we hooked up to the cigarette lighter. It was pretty much as ghetto as they come. So I was so excited to find this CD with all of the classic hip hop songs (you know the ones that get played 20 times at every church dance) and every morning on the way to high school, we would drive by my brother's middle school and hold our portable radio on the roof of the car, blasting "Jock Jams", with the horn blaring out of the speakers and yell at him. I don't know why we never realized that we were emberassing ourselves more than him. (I could not find a picture of the Granada anywhere, I can't imagine why we never took a picture of it...so I settled for the next best. Yes, that is really us. Yes, we really looked like that on the first day of school. Yes, I know we looked hideous. Yes, I know blush is not meant to be applied 10 layers deep. Yes, we are sporting some serious red fros. Yes, I can not believe I am actually posting this picture. Now just picture these fine beauties in the Granada and I think we have a deadly combination on our hands. Somehow I think that the radio out the window wasn't the true source of emberassment for my brother. I can't blame him). Sorry to drag you into this Janessa, I probably should have asked permission to post these, but I knew you would say no, so I went ahead and just posted them :) Love ya!

Gettin Jiggy With It by Will Smith
Jason and I went wakeboarding together the first summer that I met him and that's when I fell for him. We were riding home in his friend's truck and this song came on and Jason was doing this little dance thing with his hands, I can't explain it but he seriously looked so cute doing it. Whenever the song comes on now I make him do that same little dance.


Mayonaise by Smashing Pumpkins
When Jason and I were dating he loved Smashing Pumpkins. He used to play this song all the time on his guitar and there is something about a guy playing the guitar (especially my guy) that makes me melt. I can still picture us (you probably can too, Kelly :) sitting on the little couch in the kitchen of my dorm at Heritage Halls while he seranaded me...If that's not romantic, I don't know what is.


Particle Man by They Might Be Giants
While we were dating Jason would take me snowboarding all the time at Park City. The radio loses reception while driving through the mountains to get there and his car (good old Euzer, rest his soul) didn't have a CD player. Jason had this one cassett tape and since that was the only source of music, we would listen to it over and over everytime we would go up there. I particularly remember listening to it while driving up there one night to go stay with our friends at a cabin. Do you remember, Tara? We went snowmobiling and you got mad at Nate because he refused to go since he had just wrecked your parent's snowmobile? Jason and I had the best time dating...so many fun memories.

Everything I Do, I Do it For You by Bryan Adams
Jason is from Vegas and so we would go down there alot while we were dating and I would always lay on his lap and fall asleep while he was driving (not very safe, I know, but I was in love and didn't care). I remember one time while we were driving home this song came on and I was looking up at him and he told me that was the "solidifying" moment when he knew we would get married. Awwww, too bad it's such a cheesy song :)


Rainbow Cadillac by Dannity Kane and "the" Blackeyed Peas song (you know which one I'm talking about :)
Jodee. Everytime I hear these songs I think of driving in the car with you. The Rainbow Cadillac reminds me of driving to the city when we visited you in San Francisco and Blackeyed Peas reminds me of our girl trip when we kept getting lost because I was navigating. Don't forget the nasty truck driver and running across 6 lanes of traffic with your pregnant belly and my high heeled shoes!
Let's Get it Started by Blackeyed Peas
My kids!! Every Monday evening when we drive home from Kylie's gymnastics class we roll the windows all the way down and blast this song while the kids and I are all singing and dancing. It doesn't matter how hot or cold it is outside and it doesn't matter how many strange looks we get, it's just one of those moments where you're having too much fun to care.

Oh what fun memoris....there are so many more. I could go on forever, but I think I've sufficiently managed to emberass myself enough for one day.

19 comments:

Jodee said...

Yes, I know the one, that song will forever be a bond between us- in so many ways! Oh Jamie, I was dying laughing even before I got to the leggings picture. I used to write down songs from my little pink boom box so that I could sound cool whenever they came on the radio. One such song that I remember, (and still know each and every word) is Ice Ice baby! Oh yeah, too cold, too cold!
Not only do those songs make me think of fun times with you, but every time I see those leggings (that have been worn... um... not so much) in the closet I can't help but laugh. Too many things surround those leggings from the shopping trip to the nervous look on your face putting them on, to the fasion show, sprinting up the stairs so "they" couldn't see, to those pictures, and who could forget the "guest model"! Yowza! I sure do miss you! That was a great post!

Chelsea said...

Oh my! YOU, my friend, have a mind like an elephant. You put me to shame with my so-called good memory! I am WAY impressed that you remember every one of those songs, what happened during, and have a picture to go with each! Somebody stop ya! Good for you, I wish my memory was that vivid!! Loved the post, and I especially loved the first day of school picture. Those were some sweet outfits & some even sweeter hair dos. Oh and the hot pink bags, awesome. I think Jeremy would have fit in your family nicely, his hair was once that same color! HILARIOUS!!

foreveryoung said...

Jodee, I knew I would find a good use for the old leggings picture!I'm also glad to hear that I wasn't the only one writing down lyrics. So many great memories--I miss you! And Chelsea, trust me, there are many of those memories that I would LOVE to forget! Oh, and I have to clarify that the infamous first day picture was in middle school, not high school. Still emberassing nonetheless :)

Pam Jorgensen said...

Wow, Jamie! Thanks for the stroll down my own memory lane! I had strong memories for most of those songs! MY memories were from a whole different time in my life than yours in yours!! Thanks for making me feel my age!! haha

Kelly said...

You are too funny. I remember a lot of those things! I remember the Granada, believe it or not. Thanks for all the rides you guys gave us before we had our own car! And yes, I do remember Jason serenading you in the dorm!

Michelle Y. said...

I loved Toad the Wet Sprocket and R.E.M. too. Why did you get a nose surgery? I love the pictures of you growing up. I am the same way when it comes to music. I have loved music from a young age and I can hear any song on the radio and tell you what grade I was in when that song was popular. I was also guilty of writing down songs to memorize them too. Great post, thanks for the trip down memory lane!

Shanen said...

Jamie those are great memories to have and even better ones to have written down. You will be so glad you did. I couldn't stop laughing. Just think, you will soon have them in a book and published for many to see. =)

Alisa Larson said...

Okay Girl - you are my favorite poster ever! You always think of these funny things to post and I love that you're not embarassed of your "awkward stage" photos! I would never have the guts to post mine.....maybe b/c they are sooo much worse than yours! :-) Anyway, I loved reading all your memories. Oh, and maybe Jason can teach Joe to seranade me with the guitar! :-)

foreveryoung said...

What do you mean when you said "awkward stage", I thought I was pretty hot! ha, ha! I know there's no possible way that yours could be worse than mine! Oh, and Michelle, I had broken my nose so I had surgery to fix it. Not fun.

Janessa said...

Oh, Jamie. If I wasn't laughing so hard right now I might be mad at you. I have got to copy some of those pictures. You've got some classics. Were we a couple of hotties or what?! I still can't figure out why the guys weren't just falling at our feet:) I'm so glad we survived and some how ended up as married women. Those Georgia years are packed full of so many great memories. The songs totally make the memory real. Thanks for such an awesome post. You're so good at this!

Nichols Family said...

Yes! REM...and (same summer)JESUS JONES...wow! Thanks for reminding me! Those were the days! Trent and I were just having this conversation on a trip up north a few weeks ago. We tried to think of all of the songs that MTV used to play the summer REM was huge.
Love it, that's rad.

nicole said...

Jamie - first of all, i was never cool. the main reason i learned to play the guitar was for stupid dave rogers, who by the way, i saw a couple years ago and he has not changed one bit. to confirm how uncool i was, let us recall who pretended not to know who when we had that PE class together in 7th grade :) secondly, why is it that we're all wearing oversized t-shirts to the big dance? were these in style??? what were we thinking. i can't wait to see you soon! good thing we're so cool now.

Diana said...

I am loving all those old pics of you and nic and wes. I, too, wrote down lyrics to songs in my pink basement bedroom. I have What a Good Boy on my MP3 and think of Nicole everytime I hear it--it's just one of her things I guess!

The Morris Fam said...

I know exactly what you mean about certain songs and memories. I absolutely love the old school pics from your past. You are way too cute!

Rachel said...

OH my gosh Jamie! Those old pictures are killing me! AWESOME pretty much sums them up.

Tiffany said...

I love all those pictures! And yes, you do have a great memory!

Melissa Stadler said...

Oh my heavens these are the most classic pictures! I was laughing so hard Jamie you little cutie. We must have grown up around the same time because all of those songs, I totally remember. You are hillarious - love the post!

Brooklyn said...

Jamie you rock!!!!

Jodee said...

Ronnie would like to add- "Isn't the song called Show Stopper, not Rainbow Cadillac?" He would know!